Cyber sex is where two or more people connect using a computer network such as the internet and send each other sexual messages. Here's some tips for cyber sex to make the experience as good as possible.
The basic idea is to describe sexual scenes and acts using the written word. You can create totally fictitious scenes or simply describe where you are (in my bedroom, being careful not to disclose private information when having cyber sex with a stranger that you don't trust with that information, i.e. not revealing your address.)
So you can start off by describing where you are (fictitious or real), and also what you look like. This is setting the scene. You can then go on to write what you're doing to yourself, how you're feeling etc. Simply describe what you're doing to yourselves, or what you would be doing to each other.
Cyber sex is at it's best when you explicitly describe foreplay and sex between you and the person you are having cyber sex with. You don't have to write lots and lots, but it is best to have some decent descriptive language so that the other person can really visualize what is happening in the scene.
Another aspect of cyber sex is the pace and rhythm of the messages back and forth. Delaying a response can be frustrating for the other person and disrupt the flow, but can also create suspense and anticipation. Going back and forth messaging each other quickly creates a good flow and helps build the excitement of the scene and experience for you both.
The key to good cyber sex is your sexual imagination and use of descriptive language to vividly show the other person what you're doing or imagining.
Whether or not you want to masturbate when having cyber sex is up to you, you don't have to be doing any of the things you are describing and it can all be an imagination, but it's often more fun to masturbate and really get into it for the experience to be as pleasurable and exciting as possible. Another possibility is using a webcam to make the experience more visual.
Cyber sex is great fun and can be very exciting and pleasurable when you find a good partner who is descriptive. It also provides an opportunity to "try out" sexual acts and roleplaying you might not want to do in real life, but still gives you a little taster even if only in the cyber world.
For more Sex Tips and Secrets than you'll ever need in a lifetime click here >>>
